Unable to Stop Caring
It is often hard for me and for a lot of people to stop caring. You invest a lot of time into a job or relationship and when it starts going down the drain, it is hard to let go.… Read More »Unable to Stop Caring
Never Ending Stream of Shit
Shit never stops. So you have to stop once in a while. You need to get separation. If it does not kill you immediately, take a breath. If it does not kill you even in the long run, maybe it… Read More »Never Ending Stream of Shit
Transferring Needs
People often transfer their needs to other people. They expect others to read their minds and do stuff for them, and are hurt if they do not do that. It is a stupid way to live, set to fail. It… Read More »Transferring Needs
Managing Heat
Many people do no know how to use AC. They shut it down in the morning when it is cooler and boost it through the day when it is hottest. This is the least efficient. You need to use cooler… Read More »Managing Heat
Supporting by Participation
If you participate on something, you give an illusion of support to it. Sometimes even publicly declaring that you are not agreeing with what is happening will not help. People will try to use this against you. They will try… Read More »Supporting by Participation
Closest Thing
When you have a feeling that something is off or something is working, sometimes it is hard to pin down what it is about. It is good to step back and try to find the closest thing. What does it… Read More »Closest Thing
Efficiency Paradox
How most stuff is a waste and how it kills the world.
Not Being Needed
It is good to remind yourself from time to time that you are not needed. Taking a vacation, not helping your kid doing something, not stepping in for your colleague. It is not only good for you, but also for… Read More »Not Being Needed
AI Downsides
It is also about breaking culture and common understanding “It turns out we don’t use code review to prevent errors. We use it to help other developers understand and accept our proposed changes to the source code. It is a… Read More »AI Downsides
Equality and Economics
How is American Dream doing