People often transfer their needs to other people. They expect others to read their minds and do stuff for them, and are hurt if they do not do that.
It is a stupid way to live, set to fail. It guarantees disappointment.
Even in the Bible, Jesus said, “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” You first need to ask, only then you can receive.